The massage I "teach" mamas is primarily for afterpains. Sometimes when mama has had more than one baby she will complain of severe afterpains (often lasting days to literally weeks) so I will show her how she can reduce her pain by massaging her own uterus - especially right before nursing so the contraction pains are less severe.
I don't massage mamas, I demonstrate on my own belly to show them what they should be doing but - in general - vocal guidance is enough.
There shouldn't be any kneading or deep probing, have mama just do a gentle, firm stroke around the top/back/sides of her fundus downward from her navel (just like rubbing a baby's head). It should be gentle, if it is too painful she can stop or apply a lighter pressure. Only she knows what feels right for her body. If she feels any lumps or bumps, she can help gently guide them downward by using the sides of her hands (or whatever feels best for her).
Sometimes mama won't need it, but I think showing mamas how to feel her uterus goes beyond just massaging for well-being... This is a special time for her and one of the rare instances she may get to actually feel her uterus and the place that sheltered her child. 
Mamas feel how strong their uterus is and how it subsides day by day, shrinking back to its former self. Even in cases where mama is tolerating afterpains well, this connection has proved precious to many.
As for working with East Indian mamas, I have only had one - a couple that thought American management was the "right" way of doing things and were surprised when many of my own philosophies so closely echoed that of their traditional family members. It was really quite sad hearing this mama ask timidly about diapering and bottlefeeding because that was all she had been "educated" about since arriving in the States and thought that was the only way it should be done here. Seeing how much she doubted her own traditions and was so eager to embrace American attitudes made me really feel for her because she was in such a state of confusion. It felt rewarding when she discovered that I helped confirm that ECing, babywearing, and cosleeping could all be accomplished happily in Western society and that her intuition and traditions didn't have to be ignored.
So, while I haven't really been exposed much to their birthing culture or postpartum care, I have helped one mama feel comfortable doing what she felt was right.
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Uterine Massage +/ East Indian Birth & PP Culture?
Teilya Kiely 
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