Ok...here are the ones I have. Please comment or add more if you think of them. When I used them (only once so far) I went ahead and removed ones I already knew were not an option...
Place of Birth: Home/Place of Birth:Hospital
Epidural Anesthesia/No Epidural
Continuous Labor Support/No or intermittennt labor support
Boy/Girl
Forceps or Vacuum Extraction/ No Forceps for Vacuum Extraction
Vaginal Birth/Cesarean Birth
Bottle Feeding/Breastfeeding
Breastfeed Right away/Delay breastfeeding
Pain Medications: Narcotics/No Pain Medications
Labor in Hospital Gown/Labor in own clothes
Physiological Pushing: As you feel the urge/Directed Pushing: counting 1-10
Intermittent Fetal Monitoring/Continuous Fetal Monitoring
Pick your care provider/On-Call Care provider
Labor progresses at its own pace/Labor augmented with pitocin
Labor starts on its own/Induction
Early labor: At home/Early labor: hospital
Spontaneous Rupture of Membranes/Amniotomy (AROM)
Eat and Drink/IV
Cord Clamping:Immediately After Birth/Cord Clamping

elayed
Skin to Skin: Immediately After Birth/Baby Cleaned up before placing on your chest
Pushing Position: Upright Position/Pushing Position/lying down
Freedome of Movement/Labor in Bed
Labor in Water:Tub or shower/Labor without water
Midwife or Family Practice dr/Obstetrician
Episiotomy/Risk tearing
Begin Labor:Before due date/Begin Labor: After due date
I printed these on color cardstock and laminated them so they would last longer (I happened to have the laminate already at home)